SHAR | Cabo San Lucas, Mexico

How Shar planned her romantic and intimate private villa destination wedding in Cabo San Lucas, Mexico…our 1st villa DESTIBRIDE!

You only get one life - let’s live it to the fullest, let’s do what our heart desires...and figure everything out as you go!
— DESTIBRIDE SHAR

Photos courtesy of CCphotoloscabos


EPISODE 46

How Shar Planned Her Destination Wedding in Cabo San Lucas, Mexico!


This interview with DESTIBRIDE Shar was LIKE NO OTHER because she and her husband Deji’s destination wedding was at a beautiful private villa in Cabo San Lucas, Mexico!!!! Something I love about Shar (other than her GORGEOUS skin) is that she was a great mix of laid-back and serious when it came to her destination wedding planning. This Villa La Roca destination wedding was sooo amazing and Shar shared all the deets so you already know - I can't wait to hear how much you love it!

Destination Wedding Planning Topics Covered:


We chatted about:
💕 How they met
💕 A dreamy surprise proposal in Paris!
💕 Why they decided to have a destination wedding
💕 Dealing with family when deciding to “go destination”
💕Planning and saving money TOGETHER
💕How they chose their destination wedding venue
💕How they picked their destination wedding vendors - makeup, photographer, etc.
💕 Setting boundaries
💕Her Villa La Roca Wedding Review
💕and so much more!

Soooo…how do you plan a destination wedding
in Cabo San Lucas, Mexico?

Click Play and find out how Shar planned her destination wedding
at Villa La Roca in Cabo San Lucas, Mexico!

Enjoy!


WATCH SHAR’S INTERVIEW!

YOU CAN LISTEN ON THE PODCAST TOO!

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THANK YOU TO THIS EPISODE’S SPONSOR: APPYCOUPLE


DestiCouple: Shar + Deji Olasimbo


Destination Wedding Date: May 20, 2018

City & Country:  Cabo San Lucas, Mexico

Venue: Villa La Roca

Host Resorts: Riu Santa Fe ​ (affordable option)   The Cape (luxury option)

Wedding Budget: $20,000

Number of Guests: 75

Bridal Party: None

THE OLASIMBOS

Engagement Length: 17 Months

Age: Bride, 29 / Groom, 39

Hometown: Los Angeles, CA

THE STORY

We originally wanted to elope but after a ton of pushback from our parents, we decided on a closer destination so that we can have everyone there. We had no bridal party (best decision ever) and the day literally went perfect!

xx, DESTIBRIDE SHAR

THE PROPOSAL

Fun Fact: Deji planned a surprise proposal in Paris and Shar posted a video all about it on her YouTube channel!


THE BRIDE

Bride’s Dress: Vivienne Atelier

Bride’s Shoes: Nordstrom

Bride’s Jewelry: Macy’s

Hair: @hairgoalsby_lo

Makeup: Bride

#IMADESTI
DESTIBRIDE FUN FACTS:

Favorite DESTI Episode: Desti Porsha [Episode 14]

Favorite Cocktail: Cali Girl Margarita

Shar’s Travel Company: Brown Girls Trippin

Shar’s YouTube Channel: SharDavisXo

Follow her on Instagram @shardavisxo

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THE GROOM

Groom’s Attire: Maison Valentino

#DESTIGROOM FUN FACT:

Favorite Cocktail: Southern Gentlemen Old Fashioned

 

THE WEDDING

Planning: Yadira @ Villa La Roca

Styling & decor: Yadira @ Villa La Roca

Photography: CCphotoloscabos

Videography: Celestus Weddings

Paper Invitations + Details: Evite

Wedding Video courtesy of Celestus Weddings


LINKS MENTIONED:

Omi’s favorite wedding website company: Appy Couple

The Olasimbo’s post-wedding resort: - Corazón Cabo Resort & Spa (Formerly Cabo Villas Resort)

Shar’s favorite DESTIBRIDE Episode: Desti Porsha [Episode 14]

Shar’s Travel Company: Brown Girls Trippin

Shar’s YouTube Channel: SharDavisXo

Follow her on Instagram @shardavisxo

Join the DESTILOVERS COMMUNITY

Everything Else: See all Pink Links above!


SPECIAL THANKS TO OUR SPONSOR: APPY COUPLE

DESTIFACT:
We used Appy Couple for our wedding and there’s a complete walkthrough in the DESTILOVERS Community!

A SPECIAL THANK YOU TO OUR DESTIPARTNER
APPYCOUPLE FOR SPONSORING THE SHOW!

APPY COUPLE is a modern wedding website and interactive app that practically builds itself and lets you manage and share important details of your destination wedding with ease and style. And let’s be honest, Desti weddings require more care and details and Appy Couple is the perfect choice if you want to Invite and Impress!

SEE MY APPY COUPLE WEBSITE!

I GAVE A COMPLETE WALKTHROUGH OF MY WEDDING WEBSITE (with tips of course!)IN A RECENT DESTIHOUR in the DESTILOVERS Community too!
find out more information about my favorite wedding website + app for destination weddings and let me know if you have any questions!


xx, Omi


Thank You Shar!

We appreciate you being our Bridefriend Forever and giving us a peek
"behind your veil" of destination wedding planning
in beautiful Cabo San Lucas, Mexico!


Thanks for Watching + Listening Bridefriends!

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TASHIMA | Playa del Carmen, Mexico

How Tashima planned her 45 guest, pretty, panic-free, pandemic destination wedding at The Fives Azul Beach Hotel in Playa del Carmen, Mexico! (Try saying that 5 times fast!)

My wedding was gonna happen, even if it was just him and I...
— DESTIBRIDE TASHIMA

*Photos courtesy of Sotero Cancino Photography


EPISODE 40

How Tashima Planned Her Destination Wedding in Playa del Carmen, Mexico!


This interview with DESTIBRIDE Laura was MAGICAL! Laura and her husband brought 58 guests to celebrate their loving union at the The Fives Azul Beach Resort in Playa del Carmen, Mexico a and she tells us alll about their destination wedding planning journey! Laura shared so many destination wedding planning tips with us and I can't wait to hear how much you love it!

Destination Wedding Planning Topics Covered:


We chatted about:
💕How they met
💕Why they decided to have a destination wedding
💕Choosing their destination wedding date
💕Planning and saving money TOGETHER
💕How they chose their destination wedding venue
💕How they picked their destination wedding vendors - makeup, photographer, etc.
💕 An unexpected destination wedding beauty tip!
💕Her The Fives Azul Beach Resort Wedding Review
💕and so much more!

Soooo…how do you plan a destination wedding
in Playa del Carmen, Mexico?

Click Play and find out how Tashima planned her destination wedding
at
The Fives Azul Beach Resort in Playa del Carmen, Mexico!

Enjoy!


WATCH TASHIMA’S INTERVIEW!

YOU CAN LISTEN ON THE PODCAST TOO!

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THANK YOU TO THIS EPISODE’S SPONSOR: TIME FOR TRAVEL


DestiCouple: Tashima + Mark Haley


Destination Wedding Date: October 23, 2020

City & Country:  Playa del Carmen, Mexico

Venue:   The Fives Azul Beach Resort (Skydeck)

Wedding Budget: $11,000

Number of Guests: 45

Bridal Party: 3 Bridesmaids + 3 Groomsmen

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THE HALEYS

Engagement Length: 17 Months

Age: Bride, 40 / Groom, 41

Hometown: Atlanta, GA

THE STORY

We are one of a kind and perfect for each other. We met my freshman year and I brushed him off. I met him again in 2005 and brushed him off and I guess they say 3rd time's a charm because in 2013 it was all she wrote:).

We both went to HBCUs in the AUC ( Morris Brown and Clark Atlanta) and are from up north - he is from New York and I am originally from Connecticut. We have a beautiful 5 year old son together and I gained a bonus daughter who is 13.

This planning was special to me. All my friends were waiting to see this day because they know I am a planner by nature. Every birthday I have had has been over the top.

I love the details of it all and I was not super stressed about planning so I’d love to share my story to help another beautiful bride out. Not to mention I was also planning during a pandemic but that is another story within itself !!

xx, DESTIBRIDE TASHIMA


THE BRIDE

Bride’s Dress: Allure

Bride’s Shoes: Blue by Betsy Johnson

Bride’s Jewelry: Etsy + Zales

Hair: Najah Aziz @ Like the River the Salon in Atlanta, GA (see interview for details!)

Makeup: Hello Beauty Mx

#IMADESTI
DESTIBRIDE FUN FACTS:

Favorite DESTI Episode: Desti Erika [Episode 20]. She gave me the "GO" to start planning.

“I also listened to so many especially one podcast when you mentioned Sarah Kline. Sarah saved my life :)”

Sorority: Delta Sigma Theta

Follow her on Instagram @slplady

THE GROOM

Groom’s Attire: Macy’s

Groom’s Accessories: Nordstrom

THE BRIDAL PARTY

Bridesmaids’ Attire: David’s Bridal

Bridesmaids’ Shoes: Macy’s

Groomsmen’s Attire: Macy’s

Groomsmen’s Shoes: Aldo

THE WEDDING

Planning: Resort

Styling & decor: Resort

Photography: Sotero Cancino Photography

Florals: Corazon Luxury Weddings

Cake + Catering: Resort 

Wedding Website: The Knot (see it here)

DJ: Disco Movil Cancun
DESTINote: “Ricardo was so professional and we had more than a blast …it was a wedding of a lifetime”

Etsy Vendors:

Wooden Name Plates: Engrave Celebration Etsy

Events Itinerary: Minty Paperie Shop Etsy

Brilliant Bridal Shop Etsy


LINKS MENTIONED:

Omi’s favorite wedding website company: AppyCouple

Tashima’s favorite DESTIBRIDE Episode: Desti Erika [Episode 20]

Join the DESTILOVERS COMMUNITY

Everything Else: See all Pink Links above!


SPECIAL THANKS TO OUR SPONSOR: TIME FOR TRAVEL

DESTIFACT:
Time for Travel also handled Tashima’s wedding travel and she gives her glowing review in her interview!

A SPECIAL THANK YOU TO OUR DESTIPARTNER
TIME FOR TRAVEL FOR SPONSORING THE SHOW!

TIME FOR TRAVEL is a team of FREE Destination Wedding + Honeymoon Specialists owned by Sarah Kline who is known for saying:

“We have personally visited each venue we recommend,
so we know which venue is a Perfect Match for you and your guests!”

An AMAZING choice for any Caribbean, Mexico, South Pacific or Hawaii destination wedding or honeymoon, and with over 20 years of experience helping couples fulfill their dreams, Sarah and her team will make your DESTI wedding and honeymoon exactly what you've dreamed of!

More Destination Wedding Questions?
Don’t be shy, Bridefriend! - reach out to Time for Travel and see how they can help you plan your DESTI Wedding!

And tell them Your best DESTI Bridefriend Omi sent you and they’ll take EXTRA SPECIAL care of you ;)
xx, Omi


Thank You Tashima!

We appreciate you being our Bridefriend Forever and giving us a peek
"behind your veil" of destination wedding planning
in beautiful Playa del Carmen, Mexico!

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ALEAH | Playa Mujeres, Mexico

How Aleah planned her 104 guest destination wedding at the Dreams Playa Mujeres Resort in Playa Mujeres, Mexico!

It was perfect! perfect! perfect! perfect! perfect! perfect!
— DESTIBRIDE ALEAH

*Photos courtesy of Mayan Riviera Photography


EPISODE 31

How Aleah Planned Her Destination Wedding in Playa Mujeres, Mexico!


This interview with DESTIBRIDE Aleah was EVERYTHING! Aleah and her husband brought 104 guests to witness their destination wedding at the Dreams Playa Mujeres Resort in Playa Mujeres, Mexico and she tells us alll about how they did it together! Aleah shared so much destination wedding planning advice with us - I know you’re gonna love it!

Destination Wedding Planning Topics Covered:


We chatted about:
💕How they met
💕Her proposal story
💕Why they decided to have a destination wedding
💕Picking their date
💕Planning and saving money TOGETHER
💕How they chose their destination wedding venue
💕How they picked their destination wedding vendors - makeup, photographer, etc.
💕Her Dreams Playa Mujeres Review
💕and so much more!

Soooo…how do you plan a destination wedding in Playa Mujeres, Mexico?

Click Play and find out how Aleah planned her destination wedding at the Dreams Playa Mujeres in Playa Mujeres, Mexico!

Enjoy!


WATCH ALEAH’S INTERVIEW!

YOU CAN LISTEN ON THE PODCAST TOO!


DestiCouple: Aleah + Terrance Jordan


Destination Wedding Date: November 10, 2019

City & Country:  Playa Mujeres, Mexico

Venue:  Dreams Playa Mujeres (Central Garden)

Wedding Budget: $30,000
(originally budgeted for $20,000 - see interview for explanation)

Number of Guests: 104

Bridal Party: 8 Bridesmaids + 8 Groomsmen

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THE JORDANS

Engagement Length: 17 Months

Age: Bride, 32 / Groom, 35

Occupations: Bride: Consumer Marketing Consultant / Groom: Psychologist 

Hometown: Elkhart, IN -- currently residing in Atlanta, GA


THE BRIDE

Bride’s Dress: Morilee

Bride’s Shoes: Jeffery Campbell Block Heels

Bride’s Jewelry: Etsy + Elegant Designs, Elkhart, IN

Hair & Makeup: Hair - Cousin and Makeup -  Sara Tamargo and Team  

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#IMADESTI
DESTIBRIDE FUN FACTS:

Aleah’s nickname is Laya

Favorite Color: Pink

Favorite Cocktail: Champagne 

Book Recommendation: The Four Agreements

Laya is also a lifestyle blogger and has a great wedding section with great destination wedding tips ! Find her blog @ TheLayaB.com  and follow her on Instagram @thelayab_

THE GROOM

Groom’s Attire: Balani Custom Tux

Groom’s Accessories: Etsy

THE BRIDAL PARTY

Bridesmaids’ Attire: Morilee 

Groomsmen’s Attire: Suit Supply Custom Suit

THE WEDDING

Planning: Bride + Resort

Styling & decor: Bride (Shout out to Mother of Bride + Homegirl Chanel)

 Photography: Mayan Riviera Photography

Florals: Resort (Bride Provided Pictures) 

DJ: Ceremony - Resort / Reception - DJ Carver 

Paper Invitations + Details: Etsy and Minted 

Cake + Catering: Resort 

Wedding Website: Riley & Grey

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Etsy Vendors:

Welcome Bags: @WeddingUkraine Etsy

Fans at ceremony: @pbpaperie Etsy

Getting ready shirts: @WhatALuvely Etsy

Champagne place cards @RagandRoots Etsy

Hair comb: @GlamourBrideUSA Etsy

Cake topper: @Rawkrft Etsy

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Other Miscellaneous Vendors:

Tumblers: Save a Cup + Sticker Mule

Drink Floaties: DH Gate

Advil/Pepto: Dollar Dayz


LINKS MENTIONED:

Omi’s favorite wedding posts on Aleah’s LayaB blog:

The Guest List: HOW TO BUILD YOUR WEDDING GUEST LIST WITH LESS STRESS

Shopping for your dress: HOW TO SHOP FOR YOUR WEDDING DRESS WITHOUT THE STRESS

Everything Else: See all Pink Links above!


Thank You Laya!

We appreciate you being our Bridefriend Forever and giving us a peek "behind your veil" of destination wedding planning in the beautiful Playa Mujeres, Mexico!

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INTRODUCING: DESTILOVERS COMMUNITY!

FINALLY! A place where all my Desti Bridefriends can meet and discuss All Things Desti!

Hey Destis + Bridefriends!

The past few months have been ABSOLUTELY C R A Y for me and we’ll get into all of that soon enough, but right now it’s announcement time!!!

I sent an email to DESTI∙NATION email list over Valentine’s Day weekend, so you may already know this…but if not - it’s happening!!!

And btw…sign up so you don’t miss out again!

Anywho…I’m SOOO happy to finally have a place where all of my Desti Bridefriends can meet and discuss All Things Desti!

The brand spankin’ new, super secret, but not so secret DESTILOVERS Facebook Community is an extension of the show and is your safe space for sharing and collaboration while planning your destination wedding!

Not on Facebook?

No sweat - I totally get it! Sign up anyway and I’ll send you a special link to a page where you can still participate in our Live Q+A’s!

Here’s what you can also look forward to:

💕LIVE Q+A’s! (1st one beginning 02.20.2020 so don’t miss out!)

💕Episode Discussions!

💕Topic Deepdives!

💕 Weekly Desti Happy Hours!

💕 Special Guests!

💕 Giveaways!

💕And More!

This space will be whatever you Bridefriends make it! We’re a family here, so let me know what you need!

We have A LOT of catching up to do and I’ll be updating you on what’s been going on with me in this week’s live Q+A.

See you in there!
xx, Omi

 
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TRESSA | Cancun, Mexico

You’re not gonna regret it! No truer words have ever been spoken!

*Photos courtesy of Moments That Matter Photography


How Tressa Planned Her Destination Wedding in Cancun, Mexico!


Our 1st VIDEO interview is with this beautiful bride - Tressa - a Cancun, Mexico Desti! Tressa was married at the Moon Palace Resort in Cancun, Mexico and traveled w/ her family (including her 2yr old daughter) who lives in Detroit, Michigan and gives us her BEST destination wedding planning advice and tips!

Tressa is a Bridefriend O.G. and we go waaayyy back! Well, we’ve never actually met before this interview...but - she’s a longtime podcast listener and has been super-supporter from the beginning - I’m talking BlackDesti blog beginning! So I am super pumped to be able to share this interview with you all. You will learn something no matter what phase of destination wedding planning you’re in. I asked Tressa how to plan a destination wedding and she spilled all the ☕!

Destination Wedding Planning Topics Covered:

💕What Bridal Party vs. Bridefriends means to her

💕What made her choose to get married in Mexico?

💕Choosing a destination that they had never been to before - on purpose!

💕An interesting way to send Save the Dates and Invitations

💕Why she decided to plan a destination wedding vs. local wedding

💕Dealing w/ friends and family (a big family!) against the decision to plan a destination wedding

💕Dealing w/ last-minute guest RSVPs

💕Destination Wedding Specific Hair + Makeup tips

💕Shopping for her wedding gown as a plus-size bride

💕Deciding mid-wedding to change her wedding website to AppyCouple

💕How she chose her destination wedding venue

💕Money saving tips

💕How she narrowed down the perfect resort as her destination wedding venue

💕A mini review and her experience @ Moon Palace Resort in Cancun, Mexico

💕so much more!

Soooo…how do you plan a destination wedding in Cancun, Mexico?

Click Play and find out how Tressa planned her destination wedding at the Moon Palace Resort & Spa in Cancun, Mexico!

Enjoy!


WATCH PART 1

Watch Tressa’s interview on DESTITV!

WATCH PART 2

DestiCouple: Tressa + Jonathan Galloway


Tressa’s Wedding Details

Destination Wedding Date: September 2, 2017

City & Country: Cancun, Mexico

Venue: Moon Palace Resort & Spa - TripAdvisor Reviews for Moon Palace Resort

Number of Guests: 36

Number of Bridesmaids/Groomsmen: 6 each (12 total)

Total Budget: Budget originally 10,000 ended up around $12,000

Photography: Moments That Matter Photography

Bride’s Dress: Bombshell Bridal Boutique (St. Clair Shores, MI)

Bride’s Shoes: Badgley Mischka - Style: Carver | Similar Style

Bride’s Jewelry: Random costume jewelry store in Troy, MI

Hair: Resort | Moon Palace Resort & Spa Cancun, Mexico

Makeup: LePinkie Club (MUA was a bridesmaid)

Styling & decor: Zuniga (resort's preferred vendor)

Flowers: DIY! Hobby Lobby

DJ: Encore Audio & Visual (resort's preferred vendor)

Paper Invitations + Details: WeddingPassports.com

Cake + Catering: Resort | Moon Palace Resort & Spa Cancun, Mexico

Groom’s Attire: Men's Wearhouse

Groom's Accessories: Macy's

Bridesmaids’ Attire: David's Bridal

💕Don’t forget to check out Tressa’s podcast - TheRealiTea Show! These ladies are hilarious!
— Omi Allen, HEAD DESTI

Groomsmen’s Attire: Men's Wearhouse

Tressa’s podcast - TheRealiTea Show!

DESTI ❤️S ETSY!

Bridesmaids Robes – https://www.etsy.com/shop/GentleSateen

Bride’s Robe – https://www.etsy.com/shop/KatieJamesDesigns

Barefoot Sandal – https://www.etsy.com/shop/BeNelipots

💕#DestiNote from Tressa: “This snagged the hell out of the tulle under my dress and ended up breaking; I didn’t think this through when choosing the style of the barefoot sandal!” GREAT TIP! 💕Make sure you test before the wedding!

Caketopper – https://www.etsy.com/shop/HaymadeShop

Labels for Guest Tumblers – https://www.etsy.com/shop/DavetDesigns

Tumblers – https://www.dollartree.com/

Itineraries - https://www.etsy.com/shop/OneEarDesign

MORE PHOTOS!


Thanks Tressa!

We appreciate you being our Bridefriend Forever and giving us a peek "behind your veil" of destination wedding planning in the lovely Cancun, Mexico!

We wish you & Jonathan (& baby girl Jordan) the ABSOLUTE BEST!


Thanks for Listening!

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I Interviewed 8 Other Destination Brides - Here’s What I Learned…

I asked each bride how to plan a destination wedding and they delivert! - with a t!

I asked each bride how to plan a destination wedding and they delivert! - with a t!

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To kick off the NEW SEASON, I needed to first - reflect on my favorite destination wedding planning lessons learned from each Desti Bride that I had the pleasure of interviewing in Season 1 of the DESTI (formerly Bridefriends’) Guide to Destination Weddings Podcast!  

So I’ve had the pleasure of interviewing quite a few Destis and the interviews will continue through Season 2 and beyond, but the RELEASED episodes were those of 8 #DESTIBride trailblazers by the names of Rashonda, Shari-Ann, Lea, Chevita, Jackie, Porsha, Aiesha, and Ericka. I was able to chat with these ladies in pretty much every stage of my planning my destination wedding - early stages, in the middle, right before and even after so I’ve absorbed their advice from different perspectives...

Soooo…I thought it’d be fun and hopefully helpful in the process to share my favorite tip from each of them.

Here are my most favoritest destination wedding planning tips from each DestiBride…

Enjoy!

WATCH THE FULL VIDEO ON DESTITV!


THESE 8 DESTI Brides Taught Me Soo Much About Destination Wedding Planning!


How Do I Plan A Destination Wedding?

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Rashonda

SPREADSHEETS+COMMUNICATION | Episode 1


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Shari-Ann

RESEARCH, INTERVIEW, REVIEWS, REFERRALS | Episode 2


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Lea

INFORMED GUESTS | Episode 5


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Chevita

A DRESS (OR OUTFIT) THAT YOU LOVE

Episode 9 - Pt.1 | Episode 10 - Pt.2


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Jackie

ASK FOR HELP | Episode 12


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Porsha

DON’T BE AFRAID - BE EMPOWERED! | Episode 14


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Aiesha

INFUSE YOURSELF INTO PROJECTS | Episode 18


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Ericka

MAKE SELF-LOVING DECISIONS | Episode 20


The Formula

These Destis of Season 1 provided the ultimate formula for a successful and happy destination wedding planning experience…

ORGANIZATION AND COMMUNICATION + THOROUGH RESEARCH + INFORMED GUESTS + A DRESS [OR OUTFIT] THAT YOU LOVE + ASKING FOR HELP + BEING FEARLESS AND EMPOWERED + INFUSING YOURSELF INTO PROJECTS + MAKING SELF-LOVING DECISIONS

That’s all you need to pull off a successful and stress-free destination wedding!


TO MY DESTIS OF SEASON 1:

I COULDN'T HAVE DONE IT WITHOUT YOU!!!

I appreciate you being my Initial Bridefriends and for helping not only me plan my own destination wedding, but you’ll forever be able to help countless others through your open and honest interviews as well.

I am so grateful for you!


Don’t miss an episode of the DESTI Guide to Destination Weddings Podcast!

Apple Podcasts  |  Google Play  |  Stitcher | Spotify | YouTube

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QUOTE OF THE WEEK:

There is a special place in hell for women who don’t help other women.
— MADELEINE ALBRIGHT, 1ST FEMALE US SECRETARY OF STATE

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Omi's Destination Wedding Week Beauty Recap! - Part 2

Part 2 of the makeup and beauty rundown of as much as we could remember and re-live from my destination wedding weekend! Gems!

All of my wedding photos are provided courtesy of Shenko Photography


What went RIGHT and what went WRONG for my destination wedding weekend?

We go through it ALL in my #DestiBeauty chat w/ Ivory Perkins - who I hired to come along to Mexico with me to do my makeup and hair for my wedding weekend! In Episode 3, we chatted BEFORE my wedding, and then, of course, I got married and we ended up with plenty more to share, so this is our conversation that we had AFTER everything.

It’s a rundown of as much as we could remember and re-live and there are some gems in there for sure for you! This is Part 1 and here we share the wealth on everything including:

💕What you should look for and warning signs when interviewing your Desti Beauty Pro for hair + makeup for your destination wedding

 💕What to do if you can’t bring a professional makeup artist or hairstylist with you to your wedding destination

💕Day-of tips for your destination wedding + how to channel your energy

 · And more!

Enjoy!

IVORY:
Thank you so much for being our Bridefriend and DestiBeautyPro and for just being your awesomely magical self! 

MEET IVORY

IvoryPerkinsBeauty.com

Instagram @ivoryperkinsbeauty

 LISTEN TO OUR 1ST INTERVIEW ON EPISODE 3


QUOTE OF THE WEEK:

Ideas can come from anywhere and at any time. The problem with making mental notes is that the ink fades very rapidly.
— ROLF SMITH, AUTHOR

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Omi's Destination Wedding Week Beauty Recap! - Part 1

Strolling down destination wedding hair and makeup memory lane w/ Beauty Pro, Ivory Perkins. Back to Mexico we go!

Strolling down destination wedding hair and makeup memory lane w/ Beauty Pro, Ivory Perkins…Back to Mexico we go!

All of my wedding photos are provided courtesy of Shenko Photography

What went RIGHT and what went WRONG for my destination wedding weekend?

We go through it ALL in my #DestiBeauty chat w/ Ivory Perkins - who I hired to come along to Mexico with me to do my makeup and hair for my wedding weekend! We have plenty to share, so this is our conversation that we had AFTER everything. It’s a rundown of as much as we could remember and re-live and there are some gems in there for sure for you! This is Part 1 and here we share the wealth on everything including:

💕Roadblocks encountered before and during my destination wedding

💕What we did well, what could have been improved, what was expected etc. during my destination wedding weekend

💕Getting the most out of your wedding photos

💕Prepping your partner and Bridefriends

💕The Different Types of Makeup + Beauty Professionals and how to pick the right one for you

💕and more!


And just like episode 3, we are silly + chatty Bridefriends for real, so THAT’s why I decided to split it into 2 episodes. It’s a lot of information, so I hope you enjoy it!

WATCH PT. 1 ON DESTITV!

IVORY:
Thank you so much for being our Bridefriend and DestiBeautyPro and for just being your awesomely magical self! 

MEET IVORY

IvoryPerkinsBeauty.com

Instagram @ivoryperkinsbeauty


behind the scenes photos…

Photos courtesy of all our great guests!


QUOTE OF THE WEEK:

Just wing it...life, eyeliner, everything.
— UNKNOWN

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ERICKA | Riviera Maya, Mexico

“He Thanked Me Later.” A fairytale engagement story and destination wedding experience as a wedding planner!

Photography courtesy of Moni & Adri Photography 


Today, we have #DestiChat withDesti Bride Ericka - a Riviera Maya, Mexico Desti!

Ericka was married on June 26, 2017 at Azul Fives Resort in Playa del Carmen, Mexico aannndddd she just so happens to be a wedding planner so she gives us alllll kinds of great advice in this one - …and I will say that I kinda wish that I would have had this Desti chat with Ericka BEFORE my destination wedding because she really shares things that I NEVER thought about - but she got married AFTER me - so that would’ve been plain impossible - BUT at least I can pass on the love to my Destis and Bridefriends!

In this episode, we discussed:

· Making the decision to have a destination wedding

· Dealing with people who may not be supportive of your decision to have a destination wedding

· Thinking outside the box for ways to save money while planning a destination wedding

· Packing tips for your destination wedding

· Honeymooning considerations when having a destination wedding

· And more!

Ericka’s interview + more photos are below!

Enjoy!


ERICKA’S INTERVIEW!

WATCH ERICKA’S FULL INTERVIEW ON DESTITV!

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details…details…details!

Photography courtesy of Moni & Adri Photography 


The fairytale proposal!!!

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MRS. PORTIS:
Thank you sooo very much for being our Bridefriend and sharing your destination wedding story! We wish you and your family (and coming +1😍) the absolute best!  

 



QUOTE OF THE WEEK:

Almost any decision is better than no decision at all.
— BRIAN TRACY, MOTIVATIONAL SPEAKER + AUTHOR

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30 Days to My Destination Wedding! - THE RUNDOWN

Our founder, Omi is @ 30 days! To celebrate she’s sharing her proposal, engagement, and stories along destination wedding planning journey! Somebody pop a bottle!

WATCH MY FULL VIDEO ON DESTITV!

DestiChat w/ BlackDesti:

30 Days to My Destination Wedding!
Proposal, Engagement, and the Beginning of My Desti Planning Journey

In this episode, I’m feeling all warm and fuzzy since my Desti wedding is in less than 30 days, so we have  1-on-1 Desti Chat with me...yours truly...your hostess, Omi aka, BlackDesti! I share how I met my amazing fiancé, the beginning of our destination wedding planning journey, give a couple of tips and celebrate 30 days!

Links as promised!

Tripadvisor

Interview w/ Sarah Kline of Time for Travel (my Travel Agent!)

Secrets Maroma Beach (Our Resort!)


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Ivory Perkins, Destination Wedding Makeup Artist

You need to know how to prepare for your destination wedding makeup! To Pro?…or not to Pro?…these are your answers.

WATCH IVORY’S FULL INTERVIEW ON DESTITV!

All of my wedding photos are provided courtesy of Shenko Photography

Time for DestiBeauty Chat! I had an amazing time discussing destination wedding makeup with Ivory Perkins of Ivory Perkins Beauty!

Ivory is not only my personal Destination Wedding and Makeup Artist, she is also one of Washington, DC’s preferred Beauty & Bridal Specialists!  Earning many certifications from multiple makeup & hair courses across the country and internationally, these days, in addition to making Desti Brides' dreams come true on the biggest day (or weekend) of their life, Ivory's client list includes Cosmopolitan Magazine, Maybelline New York, Cirque du Soleil, BET, Centric TV, USA Today and A&E Networks (and your hostess - BlackDesti) to mention a few. 

And today we get a destination wedding beauty primer - I’m telling you now - we’re silly…but serious about our makeup. Let’s get to it!

Destination Wedding Beauty Topics Covered:

  • How far in advance should you be booking your destination wedding makeup and hair beauty specialist?

  • What to expect from your destination wedding makeup and hair trial and why it is important.

  • How to book the popular Instagram and social media makeup and beauty pro you've always wanted.

  • How to save money and make your bridal makeup budget affordable.

  • How to communicate with your destination wedding beauty pro to make sure you get what you want.

  • What to do if you can't afford a professional makeup artist for your destination wedding.

  • Why does the bride's makeup cost more than the bridesmaids and bridal party?

  • Makeup tips from beauty counters like Sephora

  • How to maintain your makeup in different types of weather, combat sweat and protect your makeup for your destination wedding.

  • Airbrush vs. traditional makeup

  • How to "get your money's worth" and maximize your services from your beauty pro

  • DestiGroom - makeup & grooming tips for men.



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SHARI-ANN | Riviera Nayarit, Mexico

Shari-Ann + Kofi’s tale of trashing the dress, shady videographers and no regrets for their destination wedding in Riviera Nayarit, Mexico - according to Shari-Ann…

*Photos courtesy of Aurora G Photography

So, our Desti Shari-Ann’s family is from Jamaica and her husband  Kofi’s family is from Ghana and they decided to have their destination wedding in Riviera Nayarit, Mexico which is on the Western coast of Mexico.  I’m so happy that Shari-Ann was willing to open up to us and share the wealth and tell us how she planned and infused their different cultures into their wedding.  She also has a cautionary tale of photography that we all need to take note of...so before I spill the beans...here you go!

WATCH/LISTEN TO SHARI-ANN’S FULL INTERVIEW ON DESTITV!

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Quick Details:

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DestiCouple: Shari-Ann & Kofi Sasu

Destination Wedding Date: June 25, 2011

City & Country: Riviera Nayarit, Mexico

Venue: Grand Velas Riviera Nayarit
(TripAdvisor Reviews HERE)

Number of Guests: 12

Total Budget: ~$15,000.00
(The original budget was $10,000, but they ended up closer to $15,000) 

Listen to find out exactly how Shari-Ann planned their beautiful destination wedding in Riviera Nayarit, Mexico! You can thank us later!


More Photos!

To see the full photo album of Shari-Ann's Destination Wedding, 
see their Real Weddings feature in Munaluchi Bridal Magazine.


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RASHONDA | Riviera Maya, Mexico

Our VERY FIRST Desti Interview! Today we find out how Real Destination Wedding Couple, Rashonda + Maleke planned their destination wedding in Riviera Maya Mexico! While working full-time…and pregnant!

All Photography courtesy of  by Petronella Photography


BEST. INTERVIEW. EVER! Because this is our VERY FIRST Desti Interview! 

In today's #DestiBride Interview, we find out how Real Destination Wedding Couple, Rashonda + Maleke planned their destination wedding in Riviera Maya Mexico!

Rashonda was more than willing to share the wealth and tell us how she planned while working her full-time job…and…PREGNANT!

WATCH RASHONDA’S FULL INTERVIEW ON DESTITV!


SEE BELOW for more details on how Rashonda + Maleke planned their destination wedding in Riviera Maya, Mexico!

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Desti:
Rashonda

DestiCouple: Rashonda Ambrose + Maleke Black

Destination Wedding Date: November 19, 2010

City & Country: Riviera Maya, Mexico

Venue: Barcelo Maya
(TripAdvisor Reviews HERE)

Number of Guests: 35-40

Total Budget: ~$16,000.00

Listen to Rashonda's Desti Interview & See the Show Notes Below
for more details on how Rashonda + Maleke planned their destination wedding in Riviera Maya, Mexico!

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Rashonda + Maleke's Destination Wedding Vendors


What She Wore

Bridal Gown: Kleinfelds

Price: $2,000 - $4,000

Bride’s ShoesPink Paradox-London

Hair & Makeup: Bride with Nickey from TRAX

Listen to Rashonda's interview to find out where this beautiful wedding dress is NOW!


What They Wore

Bridesmaids' Gowns: Bari Jay

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Groom & Groomsmen’s Formalwear: Calvin Klein


Rashonda's DestiPros... 

...and Everything Else you need to know 

VenueBarcelo Maya

Wedding Planner: Bride & Groom together with Barcelo Maya

Photographer: by Petronella Photography

Caterer: Barcelo Maya

Cake: Barcelo Maya

Florist: Barcelo Maya

Entertainment: Local Mariachi Band

Ceremony Programs: Cherish Paperie

more photos!

To see the full photo album of Rashonda + Maleke's Wedding, see their Real Weddings feature in Munaluchi Bridal Magazine.


Thanks Rashonda!

We appreciate you being our Bridefriend Forever by giving us a peak behind your veil of destination wedding planning! 
And Your family is beautiful!

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WANT TO KNOW HOW TO PLAN A DESTINATION WEDDING?  
Go to #ASKADESTI, press that great big record button and ask me a question!
Ask me the question, I’m up for the challenge! I will find it for you and report back right here!

Yeah, it’s like that!!!


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